Balancing Career and Life: A Call for Perspective

In one of my recent discussions, a student shared the internal struggle of choosing between a better position with a salary hike offered by the current employer and the desire for a higher position elsewhere. The struggle has been a source of stress, primarily driven by the feeling of being judged and the perception that the peers are undeserving of their positions. 

To take the offer within her current organization, as the partner suggests, or to take a leap of faith and seek opportunities elsewhere, lies the conundrum. 🤔

As I listened to the student, I was reminded of a line from the movie "Kal Ho Naa Ho" - "Jiyo! Khush Raho! Muskurao! Kya Pata Kal Ho Naa Ho" - a beautiful reminder to live in the moment, to cherish life as it happens. I shared this and advised to either take a risk and seek a job that matches the caliber or accept the new role and patiently work towards the goal. But most importantly, to stop stressing about it. ⏳

We spend approximately one-quarter of our day at work, yet we tend to give it more importance than the rest sixteen hours. Work is important, indeed, but so are rest, sleep, exercise, food, travel, time with family and friends, and recreation. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not spent in constant stress. Work seriously, but enjoy it. 😊

There's a scene in a futuristic Hollywood movie where the lead actors share an intimate moment through headphones, sitting across from each other. Funny, isn't it? But it's also a stark reminder of our growing gadget dependency.

Vihar, one of the pillars of yoga, advocates regular recreation. It liberates the mind, making it free and creative. Play a musical instrument, try pottery, or simply take a walk and revel in the beauty of it. 🎶

We all face challenges in our work, home, and personal lives. But amidst it all, it’s crucial to remember that life is fleeting. As my mother used to say, make the best use of your time, for it will not come back. So, live passionately, laugh heartily, enjoy your work, and most importantly, cherish each moment. After all, "Kal Ho Naa Ho".🌼